Maybe you are hanging out in the wrong bars.....good bars have a ratio of 60-65% young women to men.
If they have less the whole atmosphere becomes more nuts with guys acting like asses, and bars with lower than 50% women end up being only for those wanting to get drunk. When a new bar opens I usually visit to see the atmosphere and have been very accurate in my predications of their success or failure within the first year. Here, English style pubs are very popular with women since the norm is being a very social place where everyone talks with each other and there is very little hunting by desperate guys making it uncomfortable for women. There are some really nice bar towns in the US...San Francisco, Boston, Seattle, Austin, Portland, Charlotte, (Back in the day) New Orleans etc where even small working class neighborhood bars can be good social atmosphere and have good food, good music, and no bar fights. I have been going to bars for decades here and never seen a fight in a bar, always fun and always lots of beautiful friendly well educated girls. My visits to UK in recent years suggests that more pubs are going out of business than replacements opening. East Berlin is a great bar city. I guess I have been in bars in all 86 countries I have visited, they are great places to very quickly get a feeling for the local culture and find someone to talk with.
If they have less the whole atmosphere becomes more nuts with guys acting like asses, and bars with lower than 50% women end up being only for those wanting to get drunk. When a new bar opens I usually visit to see the atmosphere and have been very accurate in my predications of their success or failure within the first year. Here, English style pubs are very popular with women since the norm is being a very social place where everyone talks with each other and there is very little hunting by desperate guys making it uncomfortable for women. There are some really nice bar towns in the US...San Francisco, Boston, Seattle, Austin, Portland, Charlotte, (Back in the day) New Orleans etc where even small working class neighborhood bars can be good social atmosphere and have good food, good music, and no bar fights. I have been going to bars for decades here and never seen a fight in a bar, always fun and always lots of beautiful friendly well educated girls. My visits to UK in recent years suggests that more pubs are going out of business than replacements opening. East Berlin is a great bar city. I guess I have been in bars in all 86 countries I have visited, they are great places to very quickly get a feeling for the local culture and find someone to talk with.
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