The stand off voltage are guaranty by design. If it is designed for certain voltage, you should really follow it.
As of your switching problems, the "universal" solution is using relays.
And for muting-while-switching, use some SS device (probably a FET) which will be faster than the relay contact (an LDR will act after the pop), and avoid high signal voltage problems by muting at a point where signal is less than 60Vpp ... or even lower.
Absolute worst case, you pad your signal to manageable levels and then reamplify it.
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