I just want a normal 5F1 & I dont think 9/10 5F1 builders will have or need to consider buying an oscilloscope to get their simple amp working as it should.
I am convinced you are missing something. I think you have made an internal assumption about the amp, and you cannot see past it at the moment. This can happen to anyone, experienced or not. But if you look at something long enough it becomes familiar, and some circuit anomaly disappears to your eyes. Once you find what is wrong, you will be able to see why you missed it.
"Oh, I checked that" is a killer. For example, a guy checks his resistors and finds the 1.5k and 100k he expects, OK those are OK. The guy moves on, checks his grid stoppers and tone circuits, all OK. Finds no issue. Starts over tomorrow, and says to himself. "OK< I know those resistors are OK, I tested them yesterday," and he moves on down the circuit. And right there, any mistake he made the previous day is sealed into history, because he "knew" those resistors were OK. A friend comes over and suggests checking those resistors, and the guy says "Oh those are OK I checked them yesterday." Now I do not know what you have here, but I tend to think something you "know" is OK probably is not. THat makes the problem all the more mysterious. Until we find the answer.
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